What earlier I used to think was that it was the intent that mattered while helping a friend. That whether your help counts or not is irrelevant but the very sentiment that you stepped up and helped a person in need deserved recognition; but lately in current society I've found it to be untrue.
If the help doesn't sufficiently satisfy a fellow friend it, not only does he question your judgement and intent in helping him he also looks for any alterior motive you might have behind it.
Based on your further actions he uses that alterior diagnosis to judge your actions and more importantly your intenting in lending him a partially useful helping hand and not only will he not count you as being there for him he will publicise your malintent to others so that they may not be decieved by you.
The general thinking in today's society is that nobody helps nobody and if you help a person in need successfully all the way then probably he will recognise you as a rescuer but if you fail in your task be prepared to be looked at with disghust, doubt and confusion.
If the help doesn't sufficiently satisfy a fellow friend it, not only does he question your judgement and intent in helping him he also looks for any alterior motive you might have behind it.
Based on your further actions he uses that alterior diagnosis to judge your actions and more importantly your intenting in lending him a partially useful helping hand and not only will he not count you as being there for him he will publicise your malintent to others so that they may not be decieved by you.
The general thinking in today's society is that nobody helps nobody and if you help a person in need successfully all the way then probably he will recognise you as a rescuer but if you fail in your task be prepared to be looked at with disghust, doubt and confusion.
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